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Honesty is the best policy…..

For once this is not a post about climbing….but love ? 
 
I’m writing this for many reasons, but above all I want to share my story in hope it will help or resonate with even just one person. I’m happy and I’m not afraid to be honest and share my story.
 
Last year I began a journey that I didn’t plan and never thought I’d go on; the hardest, most confusing but in the end most rewarding and happy experience of my life.
 
Until October last year my life was all lined out in front of me- to settle down with my boy friend and live the life I thought I wanted.
 
I think what happened has actually shocked me more than anyone else…I fell for a girl!
 
I’ve learnt a valuable lesson and if I’m honest, I now realise how naive I was. It is possible for anyone to fall in love with anyone, of any gender and if you follow your heart the truth can bring the truest happiness. In the words of Beyoncé “True love never has to hide”. Love is love. Am I gay, am I bisexual or have I just fallen in love with a girl- not even I know and it really doesn’t matter, I don’t need a label, I’m still just Be! 
 
Believe me I tried everything to override my feelings and convince myself this wasn’t more than a friendship; we’ve both been in denial for months, lying to ourselves out of fear. Fear of the unknown, fear of change, fear of rejection and fear of the truth affecting our careers. 
 
To keep everything above board and professional the GB team psychologist was informed and involved from the start and she has been completely comfortable with how our relationship organically developed. It would be easier to carry on as we are, with only those who need to know involved, because really it shouldn’t matter, our personal lives are no one else’s business.  But now rumors are beginning to spread about our relationship we feel honesty is the best policy and our openness may actually help people. Whether or not we’re ready to share this yet, we’re not ashamed and our climbing community is so small we would rather tell the facts than allow speculation.
When we’re working together or with the GB team we are professionals; we don’t and will never let our relationship affect either of our careers. The other GB team coach has known since the start and has taken primary care of Hannah during team training / events and makes the decisions regarding her position on the team. The BMC (the organisation that run the GB team) acknowledge it as a private, adult relationship with no negative implications. 
 
 Falling in love with a woman was not part of my plan…falling in love with a member of my paraclimbing team was absolutely not part of my plan! I’ve had to dig real deep, go through hell and say good bye to the life I had to understand the truth. I didn’t have a choice- Hannah and I just clicked- once I had time on my own I realised what my feelings were. Having Hannah in my life has completed me, she allows me to be me, something that for all I know a man could never do and she means the world to me. I’ve always been a happy person but I never knew it was possible to feel this comfortable. 
 
So I’ve accepted the next part of my journey is telling you guys (most of whom really won’t care- I’m no Tom Daley ?!) because I’ve learn’t a few key things that I hope will help someone else go through this journey with a little less stress!
 
Firstly, no one really cares, not in the negative, judgmental way you expect, they just care hugely that you are happy; our friends and family still love us and fundamentally nothing’s changed. 
Most importantly no matter what you’re told, what society suggests or what you are led to believe, if you learn to listen to your heart and feelings you can find true happiness.
 
Last year a very wise man told me something that changed my life- “feelings always beat thoughts, don’t fool yourself.” He also taught me the wonders and benefits of meditation.
Once I learnt to listen to my feelings I was able to override my thoughts (that constant noise and chatter in our heads created by society, upbringing, opinions, schooling, church etc.) and experience true happiness. 
I’m no master but with a busy brain and life like mine sitting in silence for 5-10 minutes a day meditating may have saved me! Climbing is also a meditation for me, a time and place where I can be myself, clear my mind and just feel and enjoy the flow. 
 
My hope is that my openness around this subject will help climbers and many more to free their minds and find happiness and peace in themselves. This is also the intention of my charity ‘Climbing Out of Depression’ which will soon be offering support at as many walls as possible around the country. 
 
At the end of the day being happy is all that matters, we’ve only got one life and love conquers all! 
 
Thank you for reading.
 
Best wishes,
 
Be (and Hannah)
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Don’t throw away your pumpkin :-)

Sweet Pumpkin Pie Recipe

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  • 250g puree pumpkin (bake in the oven for around 30 mins/until soft then blend to smooth paste)
  • 475ml double cream
  • 2 eggs
  • 150g dates
  • 1/4 tspn salt, ginger, cloves, cineman and nutmeg

Base:

  • 100g of nuts (my favourite is a mix of almonds, cashews and walnuts- if you have any pecans use to garnish top)
  • 80g of rolled oats
  • 50g dates
  • 25g melted butter

 

How to…

I use a Nutri Bullet for this (any powerful blender will do).

For the top, simply blend the dates, eggs, cream and pumpkin puree together. Mix in salt and spices.

For the base, blend the nuts until well ground, add the dates and butter until it is a sticky enough consistency that you can press it down into the base of a cake tin (one that has a spring release sides).

Cook for around 40 mins at 180 degrees.

 

 IMG_0874Don’t throw away the seeds roast them with a sprinkling of good salt on a low heat in the oven! They are delicious on salads or just as a highly nutritious snack 🙂 Make a pumpkin soup out of the left over baked pumpkin- one pumpkin can go far!!

 

My sugar free experiment…..

My sugar free experiment- Jan 2016 – Jan ‘17

Firstly, it’s important that you understand that this blog is based on my opinions. These beliefs are based upon my personal experiences, observations and study as a nutritionist. I believe nothing in life is fact; just opinions which each individual forms through out their lives. I hope you will take from this what you want; don’t take my word for it, challenge, question and do your own research. This is very important as everyone is different. Our personal bodies (including our specific gut bacteria, metabolic type and insulin resistance), lifestyles and mindsets mean we all have a unique relationship with food.

 

O.K, this is my story; take what you wish….

This experiment really began over 3 years ago when my boyfriend heard an interview about John Yudkin on radio 4. John wrote the book ‘Pure White and Deadly’ back in 1972, when he was miles ahead of the times but many now believe his work was hidden and undermined by large sugar companies. Previous to this discovery I knew sugar was a bit naughty but I didn’t care; I loved it and was a proud chocaholic! However, the more I read and understood the more I began to care and realize it wasn’t just this one guy’s opinion! When I found out that refined sugar was connected to chronic diseases and actually fed cancer cells I started to feel quite strongly about it. My mum is fighting a chronic cancer and if there was anything I could do to help I had to learn about it. So I spent a year studying to be a nutritionist and continue reading everything I can get my hands on to understand more to this day.

I had spent years of dabbling with reducing my sugar intake, but still falling short of my addiction I knew I had to try something more drastic! As many of you have gathered (through my awful smugness and often moaning) I set my self the challenge to cut refined sugar out from my diet on Jan 1st 2016 with the aim to beat my addiction and prove it was possible to go a year without the sweet stuff! I can honestly say to you a year later, it was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

 

Now I’m not going to lie to you, (other than going completely cold turkey for the first 8 weeks) I had backups and a few cheats which made this year manageable and enjoyable. My aim was not to suffer, but to find a way of harmoniously living without the huge amount refined sugar that is found in nearly every manufactured food these days!! I had plenty of sugars though. Pretty much anything ending is ‘ose’ is a sugar, (sucrose, fructose, lactose, glucose) which naturally occur in fruit, dairy, nuts, pulses and many vegetables. As a chocoholic my real saviour was an occasional few squares of 85% organic Green & Blacks. On a few special occasions I broke and enjoyed a homemade pudding (partially to not offend the chef!) but every other pudding I ate was homemade with natural sugars, for example dates.

So you might be thinking, “You didn’t cut out sugar at all! This experiment is not a fair test”….Well you may be right, but I’ve probably eaten less than a week’s worth (of my old diet) in a whole year and that’s a good enough test for me!

One of the greatest things about this year is that my appestat (hunger control center in the brain) seems to have changed. I no longer crave sweet, refined foods and I don’t snack between meals or eat the empty calories that I used to. Not only is it a huge relief to no longer have hunger pangs and cravings but I have been able to maintain my ideal climbing weight effortlessly.

So the best thing is, I didn’t suffer. I enjoyed sweet treats but just not in a refined, packaged, full of loads of other crap way! This has been the significant thing for me; not eating the addictive, packaged treats that I used to crave and over indulge in. There is only a certain amount of ‘real’ ‘whole’ food your body can eat before it is content and full. It’s the highly refined artificial foods that have the addictive properties we can’t stop eating-, ‘Once you pop you can’t stop’! Hence why when I set up my nutrtion company I called it ‘Be REAL Nutrition’.

I can think of so many occasions this year when chocolate/ biscuits/ sweets have been offered or are readily available and the ‘old me’ would have been battling between working out how much I could get my hands on vs. how to stop eating so much because I look like a pig and am beginning to feel sick! But with this goal, knowledge and mind set in place it was easy not having the option. I just didn’t start eating them so I didn’t have to try and stop! I have not missed that over-full sugar sick feeling that I had on an almost daily basis, plus the guilt that followed and the desire to exercise until I felt I had burned it off! It was exhausting and not good for me!

 

I believe that a lot of people have a sugar addiction. I know I did and probably still do to a certain extent but I’ve decided that I don’t want it controlling my life any more. Some of my friends feel the same about alcohol or cigarettes; for me its sugar and for many its refined carbohydrates (which are really just sugar anyway). A lot of you who don’t have a sweet tooth, who can take it or leave it, may laugh at this blog and think I’m being melodramatic but I believe if we are honest, many of us struggle more than we like to admit with controlling our eating habits. It’s a taboo that we don’t like to talk about and make light of it but over eating ‘bad foods’ is contributing to chronic diseases in a similar way to other drugs including alcohol and cigarettes, not to mention type 2 diabetes and heart attacks. I have seen with my own eyes type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure reversed by reducing sugar in the diet.

 

So in conclusion, my aim of this blog was not to preach. I just want to share my experience with you all and talk openly about a taboo I feel we laugh about and justify because we associate sugar and fast food with treats, rewards, happiness, special occasions….but that really is what they should be for; an occasional treat! A slice of cake on your birthday, some chocolate at Easter and some Christmas cake at Christmas…Not a chocolate bar and fizzy drink for a midafternoon snack most days of the week! That’s when sugar becomes dangerous; it’s integrated into our daily lives to a scary extent now. It’s found in savory foods like pasta sauces, baked beans, mayonnaise, even most breads not to mention the foods we know are sweet!

I share this with you as I feel a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders this year. I now have the most consistently high energy levels I’ve ever had and I’m happy because I feel and look better inside and out! I feel particularly smug and passionate about this discovery because I have had so much fun this year and really enjoyed my food- those of you who know me know I bloody love food!!

So, I’m beginning the New Year with no intention of going back to my old ways- it’s no longer a sugar free year but a way of life.

 

If any of this rang true for you, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. I’m so passionate about what I teach and practice, so I would love to help you feel the best you can feel too.

With love and best wishes for 2017,

Be x

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  It wasn’t all fruit and veg;
these sugar free banana soufflés
were one of many delicious
recipes we developed over the year.
The Banoffee Pie and Apple n Date
slices are my current favourite!

 

Climbing Perfection in Spain- May bank holiday 2017!

Climbing coaching (bouldering, sport and top rope), morning warm up yoga sesssions and accommodation in a beautiful villa with pool and mountain views….

IMG_2953Next May bank holiday, Be Climbing presents to you the ultimate climbing experience in Spain 🙂
A good friend of mine Nat Tanzer is a very tallented yoga instructor and owner of the beautiful Spanish villa, Casa Lomita. Together we are offering a bank holiday retreat that includes 3 days of climbing coaching (two half and two full days), post climbing yoga classes as your cool down and accommodation in the beautiful Casa Lometa.

 

 

 

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Dates:
  Friday 26th- Monday 29th May 2017

To make the most of the 4 days we ask you arrive in the early afternoon of the 26th and leave from the crag on the 29th after climbing.

Cost: £250 p/p

 

 

 

 

 

casa lometa

 

Location: Casa Lometa is a beautiful villa set on a terraced hillside above the village of Benidoleig in Spain.

 

Accommodation: 

The villa can sleep six people.

There are two double bedrooms and one twin, two bath
rooms, a spacious kitchen diner and lounge with balcony.

For more photos and info please see their website:

https://casalometa.wordpress.com

 

 

 

 

img_6398What’s on the agenda:

Friday 26th: meet at the first crag at 1pm (depending on your flight)

Saturday 27th: 9.00am – 10.00am yoga class, day climbing with lunch at the crag, 5pm back to the Villa to chill by the pool!

Sunday 28th: 9.00am – 10.00am yoga class, day climbing with lunch at the crag, 5pm back to the Villa to chill by the pool!

Monday 29th: climb at a crag, which will be on the way to the airport, for as long as we can before flights that evening

 

Who is it for: Beginner- Intermediate climbers.
From those able to belay and tie-in who just want to top rope up to those leading 7b.

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Not included: flights, transfers (hire car recommended) and food. The villa has facilities to cook your meals and prepare packed lunches for the crag.